What type of advice or experiences good or bad marriage?

By admin · Wednesday, April 7th, 2010 · 1 Comment »

Who/what is the best marriage advice you have gotten?

*Or what experience has influnced you the most for a better marriage

we live together for 12 years before we got married .If you can live together and don’t kill each other then you have it made . good luck

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Marriage advice?

By admin · Monday, April 5th, 2010 · 15 Comments »

I am getting married soon. What advice do you have for a happy marriage?

Always communicate with each other
Always be honest with each other
Always be faithful to each other
Always be supportive of each other
Always be respectful of each other
Always be affectionate with each other

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How to save marriage?

By admin · Tuesday, March 30th, 2010 · 7 Comments »

I want to know ideas on how to save the institution of marriage in the US
By saving, meaning to reduce the divorce rate
To bring back value in it like chastity until marriage
and other stuff
Ardrick that is one of the reasons it is failing, more of it will kill it off, you don’t give a drowning man more water
No, allowing gay marriage is not the answer
You honestly believe that will help save it?
Pardon me, more marriages equal more divorce, thus helping out the lawyers and helping the disintegration of marriage.

If u have kids, raise your kids in a normal home so they are used to it, and talk to others about all this, but don’t force it on them or that’ll make it unappealing and annoying. Can’t expect everyone to do the same, but some can be close, and every little bit helps I suppose.

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How to help save marriage, way to improve marriage?

By admin · Saturday, March 27th, 2010 · 5 Comments »

I wanted to know whats the best tips to improve a marriage with? I found a good blog with a guide at http://www.helpsavemarriagenow.blogspot.com but really wanted some inside tips from people who have had a failed marriage go well. Thanks

Wow where to begin….
You gotta work at it. Try to talk not fight about the things that are really important. Don’t sweat the small stuff. When talking about things that bother you get specific. Don’t be general and says things like you never listen to me. Instead get specific about what was not heard. Avoid the words "always, never, etc. Because no body really always or never does anything. Recognize each other when you do good things. Lots of thank yous go along way. A friend of mine told me that when on car trips they tell each other the things they did during the week that they liked. Believe me things like putting the cap on the tooth paste, taking out the trash etc are small. Just let it go. You have pick your battles carefully. It is ok to agree to disagree. Be sure to recognize when you have done wrong and apologize. And most important of all don’t forget the 3 little words that mean so much, I love you.

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What is the best marriage advice you ever got?

By admin · Tuesday, March 16th, 2010 · 11 Comments »

My boyfriend and I are talking about getting married and I want to do everything I can to build a strong, successful marriage. So what is some advice you have received?

Remember, marriage is not a child’s game, it’s forever. Marriage is a commitment. You will have pain and you will have joy. There will be a time that you won’t feel the butterflies in your stomach when you see him. There are a many things you need to remember. Love him even when he makes you angry. Respect him. After and during a fight hug him and tell him you love him. Communicate everything to him and do not hide anything. Work on your marriage, if it is going downhill, do something about it. Do not walk away during a fight. marriage requires love, work, commitment, and truth. And remember, just because there is pain, does not mean you should just walk away. Good luck and God bless.

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