Marriage advice?

Listen to each other don’t let anyone tell you what you should do or what not to do. if you fight, fight FAIR love that person more then you love yourself. if you want to do something and your not sure if the other person would like it ask yourself if they did it would you like it. anything else you’ll have to find out as you go along.
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Well don’t hide anything from one another
tell each other everything
no keeping secrets
be faithful
honest
loving
&& don’t fight over stupid stuff
cause it could end your marriage over something really stupid
me && my husband get in stupid fights
and he wants to end it and then after awhile he says sorry and he don’t mean that he wants to end it he just does it to hurt me
which is really messed up
just dont say things you will regret
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communication and talking open about every thing..being open to all sex and having fun with it….but the main thing is communication
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Always communicate with each other
Always be honest with each other
Always be faithful to each other
Always be supportive of each other
Always be respectful of each other
Always be affectionate with each other
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He is 43 and im 39.
Together 18+yrs and happily married 17+yrs.

Both of you need to verbally state what you need from each other. Each person has needs that they expect the other to meet. These needs may be obvious to yourself, but not your mate.

For example, tell him that you want/need communication. He need to talk with you, show attention and interest in you. (this was one of my wife’s request).

I asked her to maintain her health and good looks. Exercise, play sports, join a gym, eat right. Her health is important to me.

Finally, find a church you both can agree on and attend. They have SOOOO many good messages on how to have a healthy marriage. And you will find many other couples who are working hard to maintain their marriage. Just a great training ground for new couples.
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Be open and honest, talk about everything… don’t let minor annoyances build until the two of you blow up over something stupid. Try to put each others needs first… hope your partner does the same. Again, about communication… take part in each others lives. Talk about daily things, thoughts, and feelings. That "growing apart" thing is real, and it starts when you begin to lose sight of your spouse. Hopefully there is a good foundation of love here… I strongly suggest that you don’t start a family for at least two years. Two years as a married couple will give you a chance to create some memories and to share time together…also, in all honesty, it gives you a chance to make sure this was the right choice for you before you find yourself forever attached to a man because you have children in common. Work everyday to build a future and you will be OK. Good luck.
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