Comments on: Marriage advice?

By: physician_student

physician_student — Thu, 08 Apr 2010 12:27:59 +0000

NEVER call each other names……I know it is REALLY hard not to, but if you can…….
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By: Virgo

Virgo — Thu, 08 Apr 2010 11:54:59 +0000

lol
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By: ?.::LiveLaughLove::.?

?.::Live*Laugh*Love::.? — Thu, 08 Apr 2010 11:19:59 +0000

well every marriage has their ups & downs.
but communication, being faithful, trustworthy,
just always be honest with one another.
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By: No More

No More — Thu, 08 Apr 2010 10:45:59 +0000

Be open and honest, talk about everything… don’t let minor annoyances build until the two of you blow up over something stupid. Try to put each others needs first… hope your partner does the same. Again, about communication… take part in each others lives. Talk about daily things, thoughts, and feelings. That "growing apart" thing is real, and it starts when you begin to lose sight of your spouse. Hopefully there is a good foundation of love here… I strongly suggest that you don’t start a family for at least two years. Two years as a married couple will give you a chance to create some memories and to share time together…also, in all honesty, it gives you a chance to make sure this was the right choice for you before you find yourself forever attached to a man because you have children in common. Work everyday to build a future and you will be OK. Good luck.
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By: The Duchess

The Duchess — Thu, 08 Apr 2010 10:21:59 +0000

Communication is key. Finance is a biggie in a marriage. Decide from the get go – separate accounts or joint accounts. How many kids if any kids. Never go to bed upset with each other. Always talk things over before the sun sets. Be ready to put up and forgive because we all mess up in little things and big things sometimes, and some how.
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By: To Serve

To Serve — Thu, 08 Apr 2010 09:53:59 +0000

Both of you need to verbally state what you need from each other. Each person has needs that they expect the other to meet. These needs may be obvious to yourself, but not your mate.

For example, tell him that you want/need communication. He need to talk with you, show attention and interest in you. (this was one of my wife’s request).

I asked her to maintain her health and good looks. Exercise, play sports, join a gym, eat right. Her health is important to me.

Finally, find a church you both can agree on and attend. They have SOOOO many good messages on how to have a healthy marriage. And you will find many other couples who are working hard to maintain their marriage. Just a great training ground for new couples.
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By: momof3

momof3 — Thu, 08 Apr 2010 09:33:59 +0000

WELL…..AFTER 17 YRS OF MARRIAGE, I CAN SAY THIS…..

NO SUCH THING AS A HAPPY MARRIAGE – BE PREPARED TO GET LET DOWN.
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By: short brunette wife

short brunette wife — Thu, 08 Apr 2010 08:45:59 +0000

Always communicate with each other
Always be honest with each other
Always be faithful to each other
Always be supportive of each other
Always be respectful of each other
Always be affectionate with each other
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He is 43 and im 39.
Together 18+yrs and happily married 17+yrs.

By: Guys POV

Guys POV — Thu, 08 Apr 2010 08:37:59 +0000

always be completely honest… don’t be afraid to talk about anything… things may hurt, but ya’ll will have a lot of respect for each other…
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By: bad_brad_again

bad_brad_again — Thu, 08 Apr 2010 08:30:59 +0000

communication and talking open about every thing..being open to all sex and having fun with it....but the main thing is communication
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